Where are we headed?

There is a quote from D.H. Lawrence that Dorothy Sayers quotes in her work Are Women Human? which often comes to my mind. “Visited with a shattering glimpse of the obvious,” as she puts it, he observed that “Man is willing to accept woman as …an angel, a devil, a babyface, a machine, an instrument, a bosom, a womb, a pair of legs, a servant, an encyclopedia, an ideal or an obscenity; the one thing he won’t accept her as is a human being, a real human being of the feminine sex.” While the world has changed since those words were written I wonder if they still apply today.

Last week as I read the assignment for Literary Criticism, Lawrence’s observation was evident in the work of a man from an earlier generation through Nathaniel Hawthorne’s short story “Rappaccini’s Daughter.” The story is centered on a young Italian, Giovanni, who falls in love (or infatuation) with Beatrice, the daughter of Dr. Rappaccini who is a brilliant but cold doctor with a fascination for poisonous plants. She is both extraordinarily beautiful and extraordinarily poisonous. Overlooking the more obvious feminine critiques of the story, I noticed how un-human Beatrice is.

From her introduction into the story, Hawthorne denies Beatrice’s character full humanity. She is continually portrayed in extremes; though she has a dual nature (morally and personally completely virtuous while physically a deadly temptress) her attributes are too pure in their elements to reflect human nature which is more diluted and ambiguous. She is portrayed as an angel, a poison, a siren, a flower, but not a human. She is more of an ideal than a personality. Do men still do this to women? Or are we beginning to do this to men as our society becomes more feministic and in turn demasculizing? Or in other words, as women claim the privileged discourse will we reduce a man to a monster, a knight in shining armor, a teddy bear, a doormat, a gamer, a penis, a houseguest, a dictionary, an idea or a curse word?